Category: Mentality
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I don’t know what I’m waiting for, is there anything they can do? Tormented by my thoughts, and all because of … I don’t want to keep going over it, but my brain can’t seem to stop Thoughts of…
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A personal reflection on betrayal, emotional absence, and the quiet cruelty of realising someone beside you is no longer truly with you.
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You’ve never met me.You’ve never met her, either — not in the flesh.But you still thought it was okay to whisper behind my back, to feed the fantasy, to slip yourself between us. You knew she was married. You knew…
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I’m sorry I was distant, not just because things were tough. I’m sorry I wasn’t intimate; you needed human touch. I’m sorry I let you feel, love was far away. But let me tell you something, I loved you every…
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It’s almost laughable how predictable this all is. Now that the truth has come out — that she was emotionally involved with someone else while we were still together — she’s started trying to rewrite the story. Telling friends and…
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Earlier today, my wife gave me something I needed so badly: her time — and the truth. We talked. She explained everything. She acknowledged what she did was wrong and offered a genuine apology. And in that space, I also…
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There’s a dangerous little voice that creeps in during the quiet moments — usually when you think you’re starting to feel okay. It says: “They seem upset… maybe they’re having second thoughts.” It’s such a subtle, seductive thought. It doesn’t…
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I’m shouting because you hurt me in the worst way possible. I’m shouting because in some fucked up way, despite everything. I still love you. I’m shouting because I want to hate you. I’m shouting because I’m angry. I’m shouting…
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For a long time, I thought “regaining control” meant taking action — making bold moves, drawing lines in the sand, walking away with my head high. And in some ways, it is that. But what I’ve come to learn recently…
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Sometimes, the smallest moments expose the biggest truths. For me, it wasn’t the arguments, the silence, or even the heartbreak that made things crystal clear.It was the dogs. After a long period of reflection and emotional exhaustion, I told my…
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This is an unscheduled post, so posts after it will be a bit older than when this happened. Only by a day or so, but I wanted to share this one as it’s kind of huge. There’s something uniquely cruel…
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There’s a strange kind of relief in hearing something you didn’t want to hear. Not because it feels good — it doesn’t — but because it puts an end to the wondering. The waiting. The slow, daily erosion of “what…
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I opened myself up again.Despite the trauma.Despite the last time nearly breaking me.Despite every instinct telling me to shut it all down and go numb.I stayed. I felt it. I fought. But I think I’ve just been swinging at shadows.
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I don’t know if this is a turning point or the end of the road. I guess that’s the kind of thing you only figure out looking back. Right now, all I know is that I made a mess of…
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It’s strange how the spaces we once called home can feel so foreign. Returning to the family home, even just temporarily, has stirred up a whirlwind of emotions, and I’m beginning to question everything I thought I understood about myself,…
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Examining the Intersection of Identity and Political Consistency In recent years, political discourse has shifted in profound ways, exposing an unsettling tension between personality-driven allegiance and adherence to tangible policy principles. At the heart of this paradox lies the figure…
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It’s taken me about a week to come to this realisation. When my wife told me she didn’t think things were working anymore, I went into what I can only describe as a state of stubborn denial. I felt the…
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As I navigate the aftermath of our breakup, I find myself grappling with a swirl of emotions that defy easy categorization. While part of me feels a sense of relief that we were able to arrive at this decision together,…
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We often hear politics described as a battle between the left and the right — Labour vs. Tories, Democrats vs. Republicans, socialism vs. capitalism. But sometimes, it starts to feel like that whole divide is less about genuine choice and…
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