Category: Mentality

  • I can respect Macklemore for speaking about Palestine without demanding Ed Sheeran do the same. Celebrity loyalty tests should never distract us from the innocent people suffering.

    Macklemore, Ed Sheeran and the Celebrity Loyalty Test
  • Give me one message to my past self and I’ll choose carefully. Give me a time machine and Past Me is getting charts, warnings and a proper briefing instead.

    If I Had a Time Machine, I Wouldn’t Send Myself a Message
  • A reflection on the Coldplay lyric that stayed with me, and why small acts of hope can matter when life feels impossible.

    A Song Lyric That Has Stuck With Me Forever
  • Britain’s politics is beginning to resemble a conveyor belt of disposable Prime Ministers. This piece explores the growing instability inside Westminster, the ease with which parties now turn on their own leaders, and why constant internal power struggles are damaging…

    The Conveyor Belt of Prime Ministers
  • The evolution of Reform UK raises questions about its identity as a new political movement. While presenting itself as a corrective force to the Conservative Party’s failures, it risks being perceived as merely a refuge for disaffected Conservatives. The challenge…

    When Does Reform Stop Being Reform?
  • A reflection on surviving the gap between asking for help and receiving it, while life keeps demanding that you carry on through it, anyway.

    The Gap Between Crisis and Care
  • A personal reflection on constant suicidal thoughts, emotional numbness, and anxiety when there is no plan, urgency, or visible crisis.

    When Suicide Becomes Background Noise
  • A reflection on emotional numbness, low motivation, and the quiet kind of mental health struggle that feels more empty than sad.

    When You Don’t Feel Sad, Just Empty
  • Going no contact often starts with the hope they’ll realise what they’ve lost. But the real truth is simpler: no contact isn’t about them at all. It’s about protecting yourself and finally finding some peace

    No Contact Isn’t About Them
  • I’m not in crisis and I’m not broken. I’m just exhausted in a way that’s hard to explain. This is about needing a pause from the constant demands of existing, not an escape from life itself.

    A Break From Being “On”
  • Time doesn’t rewrite who we are, it reveals it. Through loss, change, and quiet recalibration, perspective shifts from certainty to clarity, and life becomes less about milestones and more about alignment.

    When Certainty Fades, Clarity Appears
  • My first computer wasn’t powerful or impressive, but it was mine. A Tiny PC became my entry point into curiosity, learning by doing, and a lifelong fascination with technology that never really faded.

    A Tiny PC and a Lifetime of Curiosity
  • Healing didn’t come from time passing. It came from working through chaos in my own way. Writing grounded me, reflection clarified the truth, and ChatGPT acted as a mirror when my mind felt too overwhelmed to steady itself.

    Part 8 — Tools
  • We like to think we’re tolerant, but we rarely are. Blaming migrants, benefit claimants, and minorities is easier than facing the systems and people truly responsible for the mess we’re in. While we argue sideways, they keep laughing anyway.

    The Comfort of Blaming Others
  • As I’ve grown older and more aware, my relationship with online communication has shifted toward intentional anonymity. I share less publicly, not out of fear, but out of clarity—choosing boundaries over visibility, presence over performance, and expression without exposure.

    Communicating by Saying Less
  • Integration didn’t come with a breakthrough. It arrived quietly, in the moments when I realised I could remember without hurting, reflect without spiralling, and look at the past without being dragged back into it. I wasn’t rewriting the story anymore…

    Part 7 — Integration
  • The poem explores the struggle of finding hope in a bleak world, where well-meaning reassurances feel insubstantial. It highlights the difficulty of facing one’s emotions and the nuanced experience of being neither fully healed nor lost, but instead existing in…

    It’ll Be OK
  • We’re taught that family relationships are sacred, that blood outranks behaviour, and that walking away is a moral failure. I don’t believe that anymore. Estrangement wasn’t my first choice; it was my last. It came after forgiveness, restraint, and repeated…

    Family Isn’t Sacred by Default
  • Breakups, especially involving infidelity, can create barriers to new relationships, leading to feelings of inadequacy and distrust. When a partner attempts to redefine your past, it exposes their flaws rather than diminishing your worth. True healing requires recognizing your value…

    Standing Where I Was Meant to Stand
  • I’ve found it important to keep my eyes on the future, while still giving the past the space it deserves. I try to learn from my mistakes without getting stuck in them, because that’s where the real growth happens. Every…

    You Have to Look Backwards to Move Forwards.